cmake/clang_tidy.cmake: fixed header-filter and added new warning-blacklists required by the new header-filter

src/include/clapp/option_container.h: introduced option_container_t (move|copy)-constructors (and deleted (move|copy)-assignment operators)

src/include/clapp/option_container.h: introduced basic_option_container_t (move|copy)-(constructors|assigment-operators)

src/include/clapp/option_container.hpp: throw exceptions, if optional options were registered on an xor-container